Charlie Appelstein Resources
Charlie Appelstein Resource Library
Described as “the best youth care trainer in America” by Robert Lieberman, former president of the American Association of Children’s Residential Centers, Charlie has devoted his entire adult career to helping children and youth struggling with emotional and behavioral challenges and those who guide them. An engaging, informative, and humorous speaker, Charlie is the author of three critically acclaimed books on youth care and the creator of two innovative CDs that helps kids and parents make better choices and lead happier lives. Charlie’s strength-based approach delivers a message of hope and possibility to our most vulnerable youth and those who shape and influence their lives.
Appelstein Training Resources offers a wide variety of training items, including: books, CDs, and DVDs for educators, child & youth care professionals, and parents.
If you would like to borrow any of the following resources available, please email: Sharon Calaunan at scalaunan@smcgov.org.
Books
No Such
Thing as a Bad Kid! (3 copies available)
Written primarily for professionals and volunteers who guide kids
with emotional and behavioral challenges, the revised edition
of No Such Thing As a Bad Kid is packed with positive,
trauma-informed, strength-based principles and techniques that
help child-guiders to develop powerful and transforming
relationships with the kids they guide. This empowering handbook
opens by portraying misbehavior as a call for help. It then
guides the reader through “decoding” the message and, via
hundreds of hands-on tips, sample dialogues, and inspiring
anecdotes into research-backed approaches for revolutionizing
interactions with kids at risk. The book is all about changing
the negative mindsets many kids harbor and giving them hope for
better days. Even parents of children not at risk will benefit
from this book.
The Gus
Chronicles: Reflections From an Abused Kid
An easy-to-read, poignant account of life in out-of-home
placements, The Gus Chronicles follows the experiences of Gus E.
Studelmeyer, a fictional thirteen-year-old victim of sexual
abuse. Gus’ character is a composite of the many children author
and veteran youth care specialist Charlie Appelstein has worked
with over the years. Gus addresses issues such as abuse and
neglect, loyalty to family of origin, self-esteem building,
sensitivity to the misuse of power, physical restraint, and much
more.
The
Gus Chronicles II: Reflections From a Kid Who Has Been
Abused
This sequel to Appelstein’s award-winning Gus Chronicles is an
easy-to-read fictional account of troubled children living in
out-of-home placements. Gus E. Studelmeyer returns a year older
(14), and a wee bit wiser. Issues Gus addresses include abuse and
neglect, loyalty to family of origin, death of a parent,
prejudice, physical restraint, humor, and much more.
DVDs
The
Power of a Strength-Based Approach in Reshaping the Lives of
Children and Youth
What is strength-based practice? The power of a positive
attitude; strength based communication techniques including:
reframing, asking solution-focused questions, and using
inspirational metaphors; enhancing empathy and the need to avoid
pejorative labeling; self-esteem building; creative
self-management strategies; when and how to use incentives;
respectful limit-setting; and helping young people who appear
cognitively inflexible.
Strength-Based
Parenting
What is strength-based parenting and how is it practiced? Verbal
interventions that positively inform child development;
strategies for enhancing self-esteem in children and youth; the
importance of being developmentally aware; the do’s and don’ts of
respectful limit-setting; and the importance of managing number
one (keeping your cool!) and building strong support networks.
CDs
Parent
Rapsody
More than 25 singers and musicians were used to create Parent
Rapsody, including: gospel singers from Boston’s Berklee School
of Music; the choir from Temple Shalom in Newton, MA; an award
winning trumpet player from Boston College; an internationally
renowned vocalist from Virginia, and various members of the
popular band, The Adam Ezra Group.
This novel approach to parent education combines rhythm, rhyme, wordplay, and engaging melodies to promote core child-rearing practices. A handy companion for all seasons of family life.
One-Line
Raps for Girls and Chaps
Our new CD contains a host of catchy sayings called one-line raps
or cues (.e.g. “Let it go, Joe!”) put to rhythm and melody that
can enhance a young person’s functioning. By listening to or
saying them over and over again; in other words: practicing the
desired behavior – real change can occur. Whether you use our
rhythms and melodies or come up with your own, the lines
contained within have all been field-tested to produce results.
Folks, if you’re dealing with a difficult behavior – just use a line and make things fine. Big problems don’t always require big solutions.